will a relationship ever be the same if a partner that cheated comes clean and tell the other partner they cheated?
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will a relationship ever be the same if a partner that cheated comes clean and tell the other partner they cheated?
When my ex-girlfriend told me she cheated with another lady, I felt really bad. It was such a painful realization for me, but I really loved her. No, we didn’t break up immediately she told me. I told myself we had come too far to allow just a single fling that probably had no meaning to her crush the relationship we had used years to build. The relationship started dragging, I thought I really loved her after her confession, but I did not. In fact, she stated loathing me to the extent that we stopped having sex. Did we still break up? No, we didn’t end the relationship, after few months we had few drinks out. Then sh brought the break up topic, I was glad she brought it up as I couldn’t do that to her by myself. There and then, we ended each other’s suffering.
Naturally, telling them is the honorable thing to do. Whether or not they decide to stay with you after telling them. It’s their right to decide how they handle it. You should always take your lump. If you really don’t care that you cheated; then, you should just break up with them because then, you can’t be trusted. No one deserves to be in a relationship with a cheater and be treated like a fool on top of everything else.