marriage proposal really should be something two parties must have discussed before either of the couple decides to pop the question. But of course, some people love the surprise effect.
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Would you like your marriage proposal to be a surprise or you’d like to be informed?
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There are a few reasons why a surprise proposal may not be a good idea. Here is a list of some of them to consider before preparing a big surprise. If She Isn’t Ready, if she isn’t ready to be engaged. Hearing “No” at the end of the surprise will sting. Don’t do a surprise, especially a public surprise, unless you’re certain that she’ll say “Yes!”. Picking the Ring Herself— She may have wanted to choose the ring herself. It could be that she has a very specific style in mind. This problem can be easily solved by shopping for a ring with her, putting it aside until her guard is down and she forgets and then surprising her.
This might be an unpopular opinion. but I definitely think that your proposal shouldn’t be a surprise. I helped my fiancé pick out the ring and knew the month he was proposing in, and I wouldn’t have it any other way. Hear me out.
Marriage is probably the most important decision you will ever make. Who you marry will affect the rest of your life because that person will be at your side forever. You will consult them for every decision that you make. Shouldn’t this start before you get married?