I recently noticed my boyfriend still follows his ex girlfriend and it bothers me, yesterday I asked what he wanted for his birthday and he said to have a threesome with her.
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I recently noticed my boyfriend still follows his ex girlfriend and it bothers me, yesterday I asked what he wanted for his birthday and he said to have a threesome with her.
That is probably the most common request by guys wanting a threesome. It means he wants the best of both worlds and obviously is still on good terms with her. This is a tough one. If you’re not SUPER DUPER secure and confident with your relationship, it would be extremely unwise to bring his ex into the picture. That’s opening a whole new can of worms. You have every right in the world to feel the way you do. As the female, and the one “taking the plunge”, you can tell him you’ll agree to a threesome, but YOU call the shots. You pick the 3rd person, the time, and the location. Or if it was me, I’d say I’ll agree but we have to do a threesome with 2 guys first, including my ex. This will put what he’s asking for into perspective
Exes are an important part of many people’s histories, and it’s OK to want to keep in contact with them — as long as it’s at a safe distance. If your partner is following their ex without engaging in much of their content, this probably isn’t anything that should concern you. But there are boundaries that should be respected.